HAPpY SUNdAY!

HAPPY SUNDAY PEOPLE! I hope we were all able to praise God in one way or the other, if you couldn't make it to church hope you prayed at home, if you did make it to church hope you enjoyed the service and listened attentively. On Sundays some of us prefare to cook at home or go out with our families to the beach or maybe movies, whichever way..just make sure you have fun in a peaceful way..

loads of love from nia.

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Its The Weekend!!!

Just need to wish you all a happy weekend! May we have a relaxing weekend with soo much physical activities, less alcohol in our systems and a few views of BigBrother!"HeHe"

Happy weekend yall...Muah Muah muah!

Aerobics all the wayyyyyyyy!

On Monday I joined an Aerobic class and just today (Thursday) I was awarded a T-shirt (SHOWING OFF!) I can honestly say it has been fantastic so far. We do all sorts of exercises, stretching and so on. I keep getting fitter each day just because of this. Trust me, if you have 2hrs or at least an hour of Aerobics each day you would feel Soooo good about your body, You become fit and stronger. Aerobics is a form of physical exercise that combines rhythmic aerobic exercise with stretching and strength training routines with the goal of improving all elements of fitness (flexibility and muscular strength, and cardio-vascular fitness). At my aerobic class we use music which is optional (TRUST ME IT WORKS BETTER WITH MUSIC!) shhhh don't tell anyone I told you... We exercise as a team and it's almost like dancing to good tunes (While I work out I imagine myself dancing at a club, i just keep thinking of how worth it, it is and how good I would look at the end (ARBS!!!)"wink wink"". That thought keeps me going. I would advice us to have certain things we think about to keep us going as we exercise, so we don't end up as that person lacking behind. For those that like to exercise in a quiet environment,,feel free!! (Whatever Works For U!!! As long as you are dripping of sweat! IT'S PERFECT).

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The Double Mouthed!

Okay!!! 

Here I am, wondering how a human being can have 1 mouth physically and have 2 mouths mentally. Our brothers and sisters that say certain things today and say the opposite the next day,"i want to loose weight I am too fat" the next day "I just love my stature I am phat not fat "HAHA" and you think your deceiving me?"get it together!"

 On monday, Favour said "I want to focus on my education" on thursday she said" I hate school,i would never be focused on it"

Why can't we say one thing and keep to it? Okay! John said he would help me out with my assignment an hour ago, the next thing that came out of his mouth was "i would never help you with your assignment" I guess I have become the person hearing all sorts of things.

Saying two opposite things at the same time is just "deceiving of one self"as I like to call it.

You already know what you are going to do, so why try to give yourself the impression that you are deceiving others??? 

Some of us would nearly fight with our mates trying to convince them that we would do certain things, knowing fully well we are not capable, at the end of the day we  say"i never said that"

We need to be straight forward in whatever we do, decide on what you want to do or say and go on that same road instead of off road!  

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HAPPY SUNDAY!!!

HAPPY SUNDAY!!! Today I was at church and happened to be at the children's section. Coordinating kids can be such a stressful job but I was able to pull through and they loved aunt :-) Hope we all have a great sunday while thanking God for all he has blessed us with and yet to bless us with. Forever be grateful to God. Yes! For all of those that came to church today without a genuine heart,pray to God to help you!!

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WEEKEND!

Wooohooo! Weekend, cheers to the weekend people. For those who have worked hard! Time to play hard!

As for the "lazy" people, I guess the weekend wouldn't excite you since everyday is like a weekend to you. Let's have a good weekend. Don't just binge on food, also be active.
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SHOUT OUT TO OUR HATERS!!!!

So.... Today I was on the field, running and feeling fit till he passed me with full force, The wind that followed him behind wasn't a fresh one, it was polluted by his odour. What have I said about being clean while working out??!! Well I did not hate him, i just HATED" the odour he produced. 

Okay so why the hate? After I learnt about the "LindaIkeji" news I felt"WHAT'S THE POINT OF THE HATE?!

Why do we need to hate on each other when we could simply focus on loving ourselves and being better? It's an absolute waste of time to hate on another..it is soooo inconsequential with absolutely no point" attached to it! Especially when they have wronged you in NO WAY !

There are better ways to handle situations like this other than trying to create the downfall of our fellow human beings. I mean if you really do have a job, why not focus on that instead?!

Some people just see you and already claim they know you, they know how many rats you have killed and how many mosquitoes have died in your arms.

So she has a new ride, he has 10 houses, john just built a mansion, peter travels around the world, christy is soo pretty, sonia cries in a Bentley and you cry in a public bus,"HAHAHAHA",,why do we need to talk negative about them?!

Can we try an exercise? atleast for those that have created so many excuses not to workout physically,"HEHE" okay, let's put more focus on ourselves, try make yourself better, Instead of hating on others for achieving their goals. You can't spend your life time looking down on others just to make yourself feel perfect! "THEY WORKED HARD!!!!" so let them inspire you instead of being  your Hate" object! "WORK HARD FOR YOURSELF" 

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AND YOUR ANGRY BECAUSE??!

So because john told you the truth about how you get unnecessarily angry you decide not to talk to him for a year..now john's point is proven 100 percent. 

The other day I was driving very slow and still managed to splash a little water on the foot of a guy who was already pulling aggressive behaviours from afar,,He ran towards me shouting, while dragging the handle of my door, "Madam what!?what?!why would u splash water on me?what's this rubbish?"He coursed me out while I simply apologised even if I had soo many words I could have said to him (MY WORDS WOULD HAVE KILLED HIM!) ..if I reacted angrily it would have led to something intense. I held my self respect/control tight and simply drove off ..What I did is simply what every other person should do. Do not react to the provocation in a negative way. So your angry because your girlfriend wouldn't stop talking to other boys. Why,do you choose to waste your beautiful anger on that? When you could simply understand the fact that there is something called platonic friendship, I mean where has your" Trust" gone?. 

Your mum refuses to buy you the car you always wanted but bought you a "Hyundai" not just that "Porsche".CALM DOWN! and appreciate what she has gotten you, you don't need to drive it into the fence purposely thinking she would exchange it for the car of your dreams...Trust me you would remain without a car for years. Most of us get upset at the truth. Why?"The truth is bitter" but you can't just swallow sweat things all your life. I am telling you how over weight you are and how you need to do something about it before you burst! And you get upset..o well maybe because of the way it was being said but what better way to say it than in an offensive manner? so you could be pushed faster to start the run...Anger causes a lot of negative effects like increased heart rate and High Blood Pressure... So what if his Girlfriend is Hotter than you! why do you need to hate her and be so angry at first sight? (IT'S NOT HER FAULT YOU DINT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!) 

There are unnecessary/necessary anger..but we choose the unnecessary over the necessary. He was walking pass a bike man as the bike man almost hit him off the road, without waiting for an apology he slapped the bike man really hard on the eye! What if he got blind? We tend not to think before reaction. So because he called you stupid you simply decide to shoot his legs just because you have a police title? O NO! That's just out of uncalled frustration...we never know what medical state anyone could be in. Don't be a school teacher and take your anger all the way from your house to your students at school (FLOGGING THEM TILL THEY FAINT!) I know of a teacher that had problems with her husband at home she took her angry self to school, flogged a little kid for just saying" excuse me ma" Before she could be stopped the child began to bleed...Its unfair how we pour our unnecessary anger on the innocent, thereby punishing them for provocation they did not cause.. Some of our men would Get upset from work, come back home and give their wives black eye. (SUCH STUPIDITY!) Just because you think your a man? If you really are why don't you fight with your fellow man?! If you are the type that feels you have anger issues Why not go to the gym and and pour it out on exercising or go for a run or maybe therapy, Help yourself before you kill someone.

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Great week!!!

Hello people! Just to wish us all a great week ahead, as we begin this week lots of blessings shall overshadow us...AMEN..watch this space for next post!..Muah!

Happy weekend/Salah!

Happyyyyyy weekkkkennnndd peopleeeee,,have a happpyy salahhhh!!! For the muslims..dont be stingy with the cow's and ram's. Remember me!!!!!

WE DON'T NEED TO BE FAKE!

Why do we choose to act like what we are not?(ONLY ACTORS ARE ALLOWED TO DO THAT!)  So I was at a wedding the other day and all I could see was a bunch of fakeness, yes! your carrying a fake gucci bag and letting it walk in front of you (why show of when it's fake?) personally I don't have much friends..O my! They can kill you! Imagine a friend that's fake and not trust worthy asking you to borrow him/her a huge amount of money just to pay for a bag because it's designers(HELL NO!). Borrowing to pay for a bag is totally wrong! if you need to borrow money let it be for something more important (IT MUST BE WORTH IT!) why don't we cut our coats  according to our specific size's ? Why do you want to wear another person's size? So you cannot afford to maintain a jeep you spent all your savings on, why do you own one?! So you cannot afford to keep paying a certain amount for your house rent, why get a house in that area??! Because your friends are wearing designer watches, why on earth would you risk your life just to have one? It's not by force to be among the "Top class" if you are not there yet, your time would definitely come! It's funny how you would see the "fake" envy the "real" just because they are real. Well who said you did not have a choice? Is it by force to take your child to an expensive school, when you cannot afford it?NO! year to year you go around borrowing money you never pay back just because you feel the need to follow the so called"Trend".

 Some of us would stay hungry and rather feed our eyes with expensive material things. (WHAT OF YOUR MOUTH?! YOU "NEED"FOOD and "WANT"MATERIAL'S) There's a Huge difference between"want" and "need"!  It's soo sad how we have people that smile at us in our front yard and gossip at the back yard,,we would sacrifice for people and they would slap us right back in our faces... What we need to do is "avoid" avoid the"Fake" in our lives. Be proud of who you are, do not be that woman that over cooks and cleans just to get married and when it finally happens she turns to a lady that never knew how to boil water. You cannot please everyone, do not downgrade others just to look classy, don't let the only reason you are friends with someone be what you benefit from that person (MAYBE BECAUSE YOU GET TO HANG OUT AT EXPENSIVE PLACES) a fake person is an extreme liar! No need to change your personality for any human being,,if they can't accept you for who you are they are fake as well...

start by "loving who you are and your present state" while you try to be better. You don't need to be fake.

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Push That Idea!

Some of us think we are ready to become a "BOSS" of all "BOSS'S" Are you really??? Don't say you have a plan when you haven't thought about it intensely. Starting a business is not as easy as one would say. It entails a lot of strategy planning, determination and efforts. Take a look at yourself from every single angle (FROM HEAD TO TOE) Be realistic with yourself! Are You Capable? Have you got what it takes? Do you have belief in your idea? Do you have that patience for your business idea to develop into a business Organisation? How much strength are you willing to put in this business?

When starting a business you need to put all your judgment, trust and passion away, if you are looking to make profit. Speak to professionals/Analyst in the same line of business so you can get a Third party Opinion (IT'S NEEDED!). Your business plan has to be unique and customer friendly, especially when you have lots of competitors. Understand your business line from all angles, Make your research accurately. You definitely need to be surrounded by skilled and intelligent team members (NOT TYPICAL DUMBNESS). Go for training if that's what it takes look for and take advantage of means to develop whatever skills you may have. How much capital do you require? Do you need investors? If yes, you would need to top up your marketing game. Make sure your able to sell your business idea to possible investors. Marketing is key, your business point should be passed across to end users in a direct manner be it off-line or online. A very important consideration you need to make is the "Need"of end users..How useful would your business be to customers?(THIS DOESNT COUNT IF YOU DONT CARE ABOUT PROFIT,BUT WHO DOESNT?) Is it a plausible business idea in your area??IT MUST BE A NEED! Do not have an idea and expect it to fly and be successful on its own. Your idea needs your efforts in order to transform into a business Organisation if not it would remain an idea till your last generations appear. I am sure you wouldn't want that..HEHE!"

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