WE DON'T NEED TO BE FAKE!

Why do we choose to act like what we are not?(ONLY ACTORS ARE ALLOWED TO DO THAT!)  So I was at a wedding the other day and all I could see was a bunch of fakeness, yes! your carrying a fake gucci bag and letting it walk in front of you (why show of when it's fake?) personally I don't have much friends..O my! They can kill you! Imagine a friend that's fake and not trust worthy asking you to borrow him/her a huge amount of money just to pay for a bag because it's designers(HELL NO!). Borrowing to pay for a bag is totally wrong! if you need to borrow money let it be for something more important (IT MUST BE WORTH IT!) why don't we cut our coats  according to our specific size's ? Why do you want to wear another person's size? So you cannot afford to maintain a jeep you spent all your savings on, why do you own one?! So you cannot afford to keep paying a certain amount for your house rent, why get a house in that area??! Because your friends are wearing designer watches, why on earth would you risk your life just to have one? It's not by force to be among the "Top class" if you are not there yet, your time would definitely come! It's funny how you would see the "fake" envy the "real" just because they are real. Well who said you did not have a choice? Is it by force to take your child to an expensive school, when you cannot afford it?NO! year to year you go around borrowing money you never pay back just because you feel the need to follow the so called"Trend".

 Some of us would stay hungry and rather feed our eyes with expensive material things. (WHAT OF YOUR MOUTH?! YOU "NEED"FOOD and "WANT"MATERIAL'S) There's a Huge difference between"want" and "need"!  It's soo sad how we have people that smile at us in our front yard and gossip at the back yard,,we would sacrifice for people and they would slap us right back in our faces... What we need to do is "avoid" avoid the"Fake" in our lives. Be proud of who you are, do not be that woman that over cooks and cleans just to get married and when it finally happens she turns to a lady that never knew how to boil water. You cannot please everyone, do not downgrade others just to look classy, don't let the only reason you are friends with someone be what you benefit from that person (MAYBE BECAUSE YOU GET TO HANG OUT AT EXPENSIVE PLACES) a fake person is an extreme liar! No need to change your personality for any human being,,if they can't accept you for who you are they are fake as well...

start by "loving who you are and your present state" while you try to be better. You don't need to be fake.

KeepItBalanced.