AND YOUR ANGRY BECAUSE??!

So because john told you the truth about how you get unnecessarily angry you decide not to talk to him for a year..now john's point is proven 100 percent. 

The other day I was driving very slow and still managed to splash a little water on the foot of a guy who was already pulling aggressive behaviours from afar,,He ran towards me shouting, while dragging the handle of my door, "Madam what!?what?!why would u splash water on me?what's this rubbish?"He coursed me out while I simply apologised even if I had soo many words I could have said to him (MY WORDS WOULD HAVE KILLED HIM!) ..if I reacted angrily it would have led to something intense. I held my self respect/control tight and simply drove off ..What I did is simply what every other person should do. Do not react to the provocation in a negative way. So your angry because your girlfriend wouldn't stop talking to other boys. Why,do you choose to waste your beautiful anger on that? When you could simply understand the fact that there is something called platonic friendship, I mean where has your" Trust" gone?. 

Your mum refuses to buy you the car you always wanted but bought you a "Hyundai" not just that "Porsche".CALM DOWN! and appreciate what she has gotten you, you don't need to drive it into the fence purposely thinking she would exchange it for the car of your dreams...Trust me you would remain without a car for years. Most of us get upset at the truth. Why?"The truth is bitter" but you can't just swallow sweat things all your life. I am telling you how over weight you are and how you need to do something about it before you burst! And you get upset..o well maybe because of the way it was being said but what better way to say it than in an offensive manner? so you could be pushed faster to start the run...Anger causes a lot of negative effects like increased heart rate and High Blood Pressure... So what if his Girlfriend is Hotter than you! why do you need to hate her and be so angry at first sight? (IT'S NOT HER FAULT YOU DINT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!) 

There are unnecessary/necessary anger..but we choose the unnecessary over the necessary. He was walking pass a bike man as the bike man almost hit him off the road, without waiting for an apology he slapped the bike man really hard on the eye! What if he got blind? We tend not to think before reaction. So because he called you stupid you simply decide to shoot his legs just because you have a police title? O NO! That's just out of uncalled frustration...we never know what medical state anyone could be in. Don't be a school teacher and take your anger all the way from your house to your students at school (FLOGGING THEM TILL THEY FAINT!) I know of a teacher that had problems with her husband at home she took her angry self to school, flogged a little kid for just saying" excuse me ma" Before she could be stopped the child began to bleed...Its unfair how we pour our unnecessary anger on the innocent, thereby punishing them for provocation they did not cause.. Some of our men would Get upset from work, come back home and give their wives black eye. (SUCH STUPIDITY!) Just because you think your a man? If you really are why don't you fight with your fellow man?! If you are the type that feels you have anger issues Why not go to the gym and and pour it out on exercising or go for a run or maybe therapy, Help yourself before you kill someone.

KeepItBalanced.

Great week!!!

Hello people! Just to wish us all a great week ahead, as we begin this week lots of blessings shall overshadow us...AMEN..watch this space for next post!..Muah!

Happy weekend/Salah!

Happyyyyyy weekkkkennnndd peopleeeee,,have a happpyy salahhhh!!! For the muslims..dont be stingy with the cow's and ram's. Remember me!!!!!

WE DON'T NEED TO BE FAKE!

Why do we choose to act like what we are not?(ONLY ACTORS ARE ALLOWED TO DO THAT!)  So I was at a wedding the other day and all I could see was a bunch of fakeness, yes! your carrying a fake gucci bag and letting it walk in front of you (why show of when it's fake?) personally I don't have much friends..O my! They can kill you! Imagine a friend that's fake and not trust worthy asking you to borrow him/her a huge amount of money just to pay for a bag because it's designers(HELL NO!). Borrowing to pay for a bag is totally wrong! if you need to borrow money let it be for something more important (IT MUST BE WORTH IT!) why don't we cut our coats  according to our specific size's ? Why do you want to wear another person's size? So you cannot afford to maintain a jeep you spent all your savings on, why do you own one?! So you cannot afford to keep paying a certain amount for your house rent, why get a house in that area??! Because your friends are wearing designer watches, why on earth would you risk your life just to have one? It's not by force to be among the "Top class" if you are not there yet, your time would definitely come! It's funny how you would see the "fake" envy the "real" just because they are real. Well who said you did not have a choice? Is it by force to take your child to an expensive school, when you cannot afford it?NO! year to year you go around borrowing money you never pay back just because you feel the need to follow the so called"Trend".

 Some of us would stay hungry and rather feed our eyes with expensive material things. (WHAT OF YOUR MOUTH?! YOU "NEED"FOOD and "WANT"MATERIAL'S) There's a Huge difference between"want" and "need"!  It's soo sad how we have people that smile at us in our front yard and gossip at the back yard,,we would sacrifice for people and they would slap us right back in our faces... What we need to do is "avoid" avoid the"Fake" in our lives. Be proud of who you are, do not be that woman that over cooks and cleans just to get married and when it finally happens she turns to a lady that never knew how to boil water. You cannot please everyone, do not downgrade others just to look classy, don't let the only reason you are friends with someone be what you benefit from that person (MAYBE BECAUSE YOU GET TO HANG OUT AT EXPENSIVE PLACES) a fake person is an extreme liar! No need to change your personality for any human being,,if they can't accept you for who you are they are fake as well...

start by "loving who you are and your present state" while you try to be better. You don't need to be fake.

KeepItBalanced.

Push That Idea!

Some of us think we are ready to become a "BOSS" of all "BOSS'S" Are you really??? Don't say you have a plan when you haven't thought about it intensely. Starting a business is not as easy as one would say. It entails a lot of strategy planning, determination and efforts. Take a look at yourself from every single angle (FROM HEAD TO TOE) Be realistic with yourself! Are You Capable? Have you got what it takes? Do you have belief in your idea? Do you have that patience for your business idea to develop into a business Organisation? How much strength are you willing to put in this business?

When starting a business you need to put all your judgment, trust and passion away, if you are looking to make profit. Speak to professionals/Analyst in the same line of business so you can get a Third party Opinion (IT'S NEEDED!). Your business plan has to be unique and customer friendly, especially when you have lots of competitors. Understand your business line from all angles, Make your research accurately. You definitely need to be surrounded by skilled and intelligent team members (NOT TYPICAL DUMBNESS). Go for training if that's what it takes look for and take advantage of means to develop whatever skills you may have. How much capital do you require? Do you need investors? If yes, you would need to top up your marketing game. Make sure your able to sell your business idea to possible investors. Marketing is key, your business point should be passed across to end users in a direct manner be it off-line or online. A very important consideration you need to make is the "Need"of end users..How useful would your business be to customers?(THIS DOESNT COUNT IF YOU DONT CARE ABOUT PROFIT,BUT WHO DOESNT?) Is it a plausible business idea in your area??IT MUST BE A NEED! Do not have an idea and expect it to fly and be successful on its own. Your idea needs your efforts in order to transform into a business Organisation if not it would remain an idea till your last generations appear. I am sure you wouldn't want that..HEHE!"

KeepItBalanced!

Why Do You Go To Church????

Why do you go to church? To genuinely worship God or to fake it? Its amazing how people think everyone that goes to church are saint's. Therefore, they decide to go to church just to find that angelic wife or husband, at the end of the day they turn out with the opposite. Ahhhh! yes a celebration is going on at church with lots or food and drink's and that's when you remember to go to church???? Some of us totally deceive ourselves by going to church just to see what fake shoe joy is wearing that Sunday and laugh about it or how the pimple's on john's face has made him uglier. Imagine, those that go to church and end up sleeping. Some of us would look from face to face of each person at church (ARE YOU A CENSUS VOLUNTEER?)

A "church" is a place for religious christian activities not for deceiving one self. Some of us would break dance to the offering box and creep walk back just so the preacher can notice your presence (HOW'S THAT GOING TO PLEASE GOD?) some of us would make church contributions and decide to announce it to the whole congregation (WHY???) A couple of us would wear our club outfits to the church just to do fashion parade (IT'S NOT A FASHION SHOW!!!) For those of us that are thieves and we know we are going to steal tomorrow yet we still come to church to ask for forgiveness, SORRY! to disappoint you but God knows the faithful. It's not just by showing up at church but you need to believe from within.

Are you just a "church goer" or A true christian? Isn't it better to stay at home rather than go to church and make a fool out of yourself?? do not force yourself to go to church when you have an evil mind. Why not start by praying indoors. when you have decided to be a better person then you can go to church and be renewed.

Go to church with a genuine mind.

Know Your Limit!

HAPPY SUNDAY! hope we all went to church? 

I was out and about yesterday and o my! what i experienced seemed like a movie, A young man basically tormented my life obviously under the influence of alcohol , i literally had to leave that spot just because of him, it seemed like if i did not give him my digits he would commit suicide..

On my way out, i experienced a drunk lady pass out just at her vehicle door, she was being rubbed of all she had in her purse and the vehicle was taken as well, i couldn't help in anyway even if i tried. 

All i could do was imagine how she would feel when she woke up from her slumber.

"ALCOHOL!" beer,wine or spirit they are all the same. Some of us need alcohol to have fun, cant we have fun without it? Some of us would go to the club, pop 20 bottles of champagne and sign tabs, at the end of the day we are being pursued to pay (IS IT BY FORCE?). some men need it for confidence just to talk to a girl and they end up stumbling because they overtake it(SO WHAT'S THE POINT???). Some of us would not stop drinking till we vomit or pass out...ahh is it that serious?! We would drink alcohol and not put the negative side effects into consideration. What it could cause to our bodies?? diabetes,liver/heart issues,stroke,fertility and immune system issues,cancer,memory loss,High Blood Pressure,,even death, just to mention a few..

We do not need alcohol to survive! (IT IS NOT BLOOD!) okay,fine...You end up at a social gathering...You can have alcohol but know your limit! do not binge and become the FOOL of the party thinking your the LIFE of the party.

I mean so many deaths have been caused by high consumption of alcohol, alcohol is not the problem,  we are the problem, (ALCOHOL WOULD NOT JUMP UP TO YOUR MOUTH) we pick it up  ourselves. Drunk driving? Its just terrible,,just because you decide to have fun for a night you drive straight into an electric pole. Why????? Is it worth dying for? NO!!! Alcohol would forever exist ,,whether your alive or dead, It does not care about you.

Know your limit and drink wisely, if we could do this the world would be a better place.

KeepItBalanced.