Trust me! its just "time" you need and you would be over "Heartbreak" but lets not overuse time,you don't want to take forever getting over this,right? Okay,enough crying, some of us would cry a river for decades. Bottom line you are allowed to mourn for 24HR's! after that GET IT TOGETHER!
You think over feeding is going to help? WRONG MOVE! you are just going to be fat, "DAZ HALLL"(that's all) is that what you need?what you need is the opposite which is "Exercise"
some of us want to ask God"why oooo why God?"some of us would commit several suicide attempts,there's nothing more painful than failed suicide attempts...it doesn't make sense trying to kill yourself cause you got dumped!NO!! you are not Jesus Christ that died for us(humans),do not! i repeat DO NOT!!!some of us would hug the properties and pictures of our EX's even when we know they have moved on,WHY???This is when you burn and throw all that past episodes away!its all History at that point.
Yeah Yeah,you guys might reunite but for now you are not together!!! if you happen to get back together let it be a renewed relationship.
After a break up,its time to glow up, look your best,fix yourself up,if you had the supposed issue then become a better person. here are a few steps to take:
Therapy:talk to people with positive outlook on life,could be your family or close friends or even a well trained Therapist. Social life:go out,have fun,go on dates but do not make the other party take you too seriously as its too soon to begin another serious relationship, especially when you just got out of a long term relationship,that person you all of a sudden "think" you might like would end up as "REBOUND"so beware!this "dating"is just to improve your confidence not to deceive other's.
Outlook:change your wardrobe if possible,fix your hair up,remember you are doing all these for yourself and not for your EX. Focus on moving on:find something to shift your thoughts from the heartbreak be it Tennis,basket ball,movies,reading etc... Accept it:once you accept "ITS OVER" you are good to go,you would begin to see it as an experience you passed through. Be positive,let all you think about be positive! With all this advice's in place,i mean it would not be easy but Jack and John tried them and it WORKED!
If you and your EX are meant to be,Destiny would surely do something about it, don't go about bugging him/her. I mean,if you have never passed through heartbreak,,are you sure you have a heart???
Focus on loving yourself!
Youself plus time plus getting over it, equal to #FULLHAPPYYOU4REAL.lol
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY!!!! you got that right!
ReplyDeleteNia, very well said. People hold on to things that are not existing. When a relationship goes bad or love turns sour, there is not much that you can do. Holding on when the other person has moved on is leaving in self denial. When you hold on to the past, you can't access the present or the future. Most importantly love yourself.
ReplyDeleteExactly my point,,,,while holding on to the past,there would be no progress.. :-)
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