The other day,i was at the passport office.I gave my "Trust" to an "area boy" as they are being called to help me renew my passport,he had smartness all over his face so i gave him the benefit of the doubt,he effortlessly disappointed me and skipped work the next day.The following day he showed up and i was like"IV GOTCHYA NOW"he looked soooo sorry but i couldn't fall for that act" anymore.......this young man wasn't thinking of what this "aunty"as they call me could do for him in the long run he just wanted it alll NOW NOW!
We tend to trust those not worthy of our trust,they end up misbehaving or turning us down.
What about this?"lets not expect perfection (Trust wise)from anyone" doing that, disappointment to us would be nonexistent. We must trust our banks o!,,personally i would be sooo disappointed if am being told",Madam,all your savings are lost"HEHE"
I trusted my car yesterday and it messed me up big time,all trust is gone..i mean that's why i am writing from my car,,i have to warm it every morning from today.
Lets give 99 and half percent of our "trust" to God and then consider giving the remnant to Human.
"Intense/Sexual Relationship wise" without "Trust" O girl/boy your relationship is just starting"No offence"but it is a key factor in every strong and everlasting relationship along side happiness and love. Good thing" is "Trust" can develop with time but in cases were it never does,,what do you do? when there's no "Trust" questions like"where are you?who is that?what is her/his hand doing on your neck?who are you talking to and the most killing statement "LET ME SEE YOUR PHONE" those questions/statement become the only music you listen to.
No "Trust"atalll! is better than having "Trust"and loosing it...it becomes like a cracked mirror you try to glue together,,my brother's and sister's "IT CAN NEVER BE THE SAME!"
Trust is hard to come by for most people,they tend to have a tight circle of friends, in most cases that could be the best option!ahh what have we not seen with supposed friends in this life??
We could give people "The benefit of the doubt"put them to test constantly, your "Trust"is not cheap...They must work "HARD" to gain it!
I have put my trust on cab drivers for years, they never failed to disappoint me up to the extent that when there's no disappointment i become disappointed. It becomes a surprise!I BECOME AMAZED!
I don't see myself developing "Trust" for mechanics though all they call is "money money madam money"
Most of ALL! We must "Trust"ourselves first! create that kind of self you would want to go to the movies and romantic dates with,that self you can be happy to live with all your life!
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